Now You Know. Or, a post about consent for all of the “good guys”.

So, here is me, one more voice writing one more post about consent. But, this one is different, because it is directed to all of you. My friends. The “good guys”. You know who you are. I have laughed with you, admired you, hugged you, drank with you, sang with you, trusted you, helped you, vouched for you, and believed in you. I have called you a friend. And now I am calling you out. After this, you can never say you didn’t know. You can never selfishly take advantage of a woman, violate her consent, and claim ignorance.